HAVING THREE HOLES DOES NOT MAKE YOU A WOMAN
The greatest insult I have ever received from a man was 'Trish, having 3 holes does not make you a woman'. Many years after that I still struggled to get over it. With every insult he threw at me, I believed it to a point where I believed that I was not worth being loved by a man. Infact I felt sorry for any guy who was going to come and say they loved me. Thank God for Jesus who healed my brokenness and restored my identity.
Dear man, the greatest pain you can ever give a woman is an insult. It is your God ordained gift to name things. Even during creation God gave you the authority to name things and until today-we can call a dog Mickey, Spike or whatever, the fact remains that it will still remain a dog. Likewise the first impression that Adam had of Eve was to name her woman, bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh and still today a woman remains a woman.
In other words, what you say to a woman, girl child, daughter and sister goes deeper than you think. If a lady tells me I am fat I do not take it seriously but should a man call me fat something in me dies and by the end of the day I will be in the gym. This is just natural; it is how we have been crafted. Therefore whatever you say verbally abusing a woman kills a generation.
Mothers and fathers we have to pledge to raise up a boy child and teach him to respect woman in every way possible.
Dear ladies, life and circumstances sometimes push us to a place where we settle for what it says we are. I dare you to know who you are, grow a thick bone and attitudes that cannot be burnt by life situations. If there is anything I know from experience, life hits women the hard way. Women are the most hurt people on the planet yet God has given them the strength of an ox to overcome.
Woman, today I dare you to establish yourself, find your true godly identity and jealously guard it. Life is not easy and you will never get it easy and it does not get any easier. What you will face tomorrow is greater than what you have faced today. So use your pain today to build resilience for tomorrow, if not tomorrow might kill you.
I know some of you have been hurt both physically and emotionally, I’m sorry. I'm so sorry for what that guy said that to you, that he hit you, that he took advantage of you when you were most valnerable and at your lowest. I’m so sorry that he didn't see the value in you and that he insulted you the way he did.
Baby girl, I’m so sorry that the one man you trusted as a friend, brother, father and family hurt you. I am so sorry you had to go through that.
Now; pick yourself up, dust yourself off, fix yourself up, fix your crown and try life again.
I love you xoxo
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